Yesterday's child

It seems like only yesterday she was playing with all her toys

But now she has grown up and is talking about kissing boys

I have to face the fact that my yesterday’s child is now gone

She is almost a grown up and getting ready to move on

It won't be long now, soon all of her innocence will be lost

As she grows to be a woman, her childhood will pay the cost

What has happened to my yesterday's child

The one who could melt my heart when she smiled

Those days with my little girl are done

She is growing up to be a woman

Pretty soon she will be some other guy's

And it brings a tear to this father's eyes

That sad day is fast approaching I know

But I am not ready to let her go

I am now missing my yesterday's child

Who could melt away my heart when she smiled

Sadly my yesterday's child is now gone

Almost grown up and ready to move on

It seems like only yesterday I was watching her be born

I bought her first outfit, the one that coming home, she had worn

I can still remember hearing the first words that she could talk

I can still remember the day she decided she could walk

Now my yesterday's child is growing up into a woman

And seeing it happen before my eyes is not that much fun

What has happened to my yesterday's child

The one who could melt my heart when she smiled

Those days with my little girl are done

She is growing up to be a woman

Pretty soon she will be some other guy's

And it brings a tear to this father's eyes

That sad day is fast approaching I know

But I am not ready to let her go

I am now missing my yesterday's child

Who could melt away my heart when she smiled

Sadly my yesterday's child is now gone

Almost grown up and ready to move on

It seems like only yesterday when she was my baby girl

And to her I was the most important guy in the whole world

Now that has changed forever and things will never be the same

Soon she will start dating and one day take another man's name

That is when my yesterday's child will become forever lost

Her innocence and childhood sacrificed to pay the cost

Oh what happened to my yesterday's child

The one who could melt my heart when she smiled

Those days with my little girl are done

She is growing up to be a woman

Very soon she will be some other guy's

And it brings a tear to this father's eyes

The sad day is fast approaching I know

But I am not ready to let her go

I am now missing my yesterday's child

Who could melt away my heart when she smiled

Sadly my yesterday's child has now gone

Almost grown up and ready to move on

Have you ever loved a Woman?

It’s the season of love, but wonder if anyone really seems to be feeling it…

People say... love is in the air… but is there anyone who is breathing it…

Life's become so mechanical for each one of us, that love is merely become an option in our life… gone are those days when love was an integral part of our lives and when people would go to any length to find that true love…

But for now… love has lost its meaning… I don’t mean to sound like a sexist but men are busy loving and running behind the money and the cars... that’s all that they share their passion for… hi-tech gadgets, million dollar deals, time machine’s etc. wonder whether and where does a Woman fit in.

Again in bold... this note isn’t about a sexist but like most of my notes are based on the reality of emotions related to a woman... my this note is dedicated to hard hitting reality of men…

So let me ask you, when was the last time you did something special for the girl you love….??

I’m sure you won’t recollect… but hell yes, you surely remember the last time you updated your gadget or car music system….

When was the last time you called you woman up to check with her if she was doing alright…. And if she needed anything??

But I bet every time you walk pass by your car, you make sure to notice the new scratch or dent and rush home to get a napkin to wipe the mud of your car…..

When was the last time you held your woman by the waist, looked her in your eyes and tell her how badly you want her…?

But I’m sure every time your dream machine pulls up next to you at the signal; you make it a point to yell out how badly you want that master piece.

When was the last time you took time out to spend a day with the woman of your dreams …?

But I’m sure it was just around the corner when you took time out to take your machine for a nice service spa…..

When was the last time you hopped by a grocery store to pick chocolates or stopped by a florist to get your girl a bunch of flowers… honestly as a woman… flowers are NO BIG deal… a woman of substance can get anyone to get her a bunch of flowers…. And trust me... if she wants it... she cant get anything under the sun… remember guys it’s not about the flowers that she craves…. It’s just about you taking an extra moment to go out of the way to do something for her that she longs for. A bunch of flowers could cost you 50 bucks, but the smile you can put on her face is going to be priceless… and you still think that if it’s not worth your time…. Then… no point reading further…

We all know that a woman is a lot more emotionally stronger than a man… but when she is in love, she doesn’t once hold herself from opening up and being at the peak of being vulnerable. She wants her man to love her for what she truly is. What a man takes to be vulnerability is actually the strength and trust the woman instils in him to show him her inner self… trust me it would take a hell and a lifetime for a man to be so brutally honest about his inner being…

While a woman may spend hours crying for you… she doesn’t do that because she has nothing better to do in life, she only does that with a hope that someday those tears are the reason for you to hold her in her arms and tell her , “everything will be ok.!”

She spends hours cooking for you, not because she loves to sweat it out in the kitchen or she has no social life of her own, she probably does that because she knows that’s something that would get you thinking about having a family together someday.

She pours out her heart in all the romantic quotes and poems for you, not because she’s trying to win the title of the Opera Queen, but only for you to know that, “Boy, this is exactly how I feel and I’m not afraid to admit it!!”

She’ll still love you for all the cold shoulder that you have given her, not because she doesn’t have other options… but because she knows that her heart is warm enough just to keep the relationship safe and secure.

If she loves you like the way she does, that’s not because she’s an emotional fool and can’t do without you. It’s only because she knows she can stand alone and have the world at her feet, but she wants to share that world with you.

…………………AND if you still haven’t seen it…… then the question you should be asking yourself here is that…. Have you ever really loved a Woman….???

You can push her away with all the self made anger, disrespect her for none of her mistake, pretend like your busy working, while you are playing with your cars, get her to get her off your back….. But that doesn’t stop a true woman from loving you….. Only difference will be… One moment she’s her….. And before you realize the next moment she’ll be gone…..

So guys… if you have found that true love…. But you are still busy ogling at the cars and the gadgets…. Then just make sure you are in the right relationship…

Not because the woman is not the right one for you… in that case no woman is the right one for you…….. But you will only know this…. IF YOU HAVE REALLY EVER LOVED A WOMAN…….

Just one word

the whole world revolves around this one world...evry belief, evry faith evry prayer-ANSWERED, UNANSWERED...evry relationship, evry frenship, evry motive, evry interaction, evry expectation, evry anticipation, evry anxiety...

JUST THIS ONE WORD.... it makes people pour out their hearts to strangers..it makes us let another, lead us blindfolded...

JUST THIS ONE WORD.....it satisfies the urge of sharing a part of your thinking, your imaginations, your opinions, your beliefs...it guarantees a night's sleep sometimes...it gifts a 100 sleepless nights on other occasions..

JUST THIS ONE WORD...it wipes your soul off anxiety..it blacks out yr fear...it enables the others to destroy you COMPLETELY...to render you helpless...to shatter you..leave you in regret..to ruin your belief..to weaken your faith...

JUST THIS ONE WORD....grows from no where..springs in a beautiful tree...grows taller,wider,stronger & you keep patiently watering it for years..waiting for it to bear FRUIT...

JUST THIS ONE WORD....it takes yours to build..day after day..month after month..and one day..one moment..is all it takes..to break...

JUST THIS ONE WORD--------TRUST...!!!!

wakin up from deep slumber

They say its difficult to sleep with open eyes..well figuratively yes but so many of us do it everyday..sleep with eyes open dreaming of a wishful world..dreaming of things which may or may not happen...of the knowns and the unknowns...and the slumber continues...[mind u even monotony is a slumber]

and then one fine day..you wake up from the slumber and then theres this pressing urge to find the "old" you..the "lost" you..

and thus begins the journey of rediscovering yourself..

my blog has been my first love..its been everything to me...something i ve held onto at all times..something i can call my "own" and today when i came back to it..it welcomed me with its arms opened without a grudge without clamouring about me abandoning it..

a thankyou to all my friends and people who urged and egged me on to come back..its touching to find that people value what you write and feel..[thats the biggest recognition ]

n once you decide to come back to your first love..nothing,i repeat nothing can STOP u![ ddlj style:p] no writer's block..no busy schedules..

it feels great to come back..it feels great to be home..:)

Child Abuse

10th september 2009

Tears and more tears filled my eyes

After hearing that an innocent child was killed by her Grand parents

The Grand parents abused this innocent child

While this innocent child was alive

The Grand parents forced her to drink water out of the toilet bowl

And this innocent child was loosing weight every day while she was Alive

I can't understand why anyone would abuse an innocent child?

This child was treated like an animal

Why?

Why this innocent child was punished so badly by her Grand parents?

The justice finally came down after her Grand Parents went to court

They are now where they belong

In jail

They will be there for few years

I don't believe that these years are enough

Do they have any conscious?

They inflicted pain and suffering in an innocent child

A child that was so young

A child that we will never see growing up

Because that child is dead

And so young

Tears and more tears filled my eyes

Knowing that something like that happened so close to me

Why did the Grand Parents hated this little Innocent child?

Tears and more tears filled my eyes knowing that there is too much Violence in this world

It is time that we stop abusing the children

Let's show appreciation for the children

Let's have pride for our children

Let's share joy and happiness with our children

Let's praise our children for the good things they do

Let's tell our children that they are special

Let's share our love with the children

Let's work together to stop child abuse

Let's get together and pray for one another

Let's take the time to reflect in our lives

Child abuse has to stop now

Because enough is enough

Let's provide a safe place where the children can play

And be children forever more

Long live the children

The earth belong to us and the children

Let's save the earth from violence and child abuse

Behind the mask

We meet people

Something unexplainable,

catch our attention

A smile

A word

Leading to an uncontrollable attraction

Growing into a liking

As you see more and more

Of their qualities and values

Time comes

You gradually see more

All their flaws

Sometimes even masked as a warning

But you ignore them

Because you are blinded by

Their qualities and values

Time passes

One year, two years, three years

And even more

You see much more

But then

What would be in front of you

Would make you feel fear

And all the sense of comfort vanished

although it is as if there was a spell on you

too powerful for you to break free

It would then be too late

my salute

Freedom is not free, it has a large cost

Paid for by lives forever changed or lost

Men and women have been sent over seas

To fight for ideals our country believes

We called on them to battle in our wars

They sacrificed their lives on border

Sometimes they were asked to help kept the peace

Other times to help make violence cease

Some of them never did make it back home

Their exact fates do still remain unknown

They did it all for little praise or pay

But they are all remembered on this day

Although a lot of good food will be ate

It is their service that makes this day great

All who protected the safron white and green

This is my salute in honor of you