Have you ever loved a Woman?

It’s the season of love, but wonder if anyone really seems to be feeling it…

People say... love is in the air… but is there anyone who is breathing it…

Life's become so mechanical for each one of us, that love is merely become an option in our life… gone are those days when love was an integral part of our lives and when people would go to any length to find that true love…

But for now… love has lost its meaning… I don’t mean to sound like a sexist but men are busy loving and running behind the money and the cars... that’s all that they share their passion for… hi-tech gadgets, million dollar deals, time machine’s etc. wonder whether and where does a Woman fit in.

Again in bold... this note isn’t about a sexist but like most of my notes are based on the reality of emotions related to a woman... my this note is dedicated to hard hitting reality of men…

So let me ask you, when was the last time you did something special for the girl you love….??

I’m sure you won’t recollect… but hell yes, you surely remember the last time you updated your gadget or car music system….

When was the last time you called you woman up to check with her if she was doing alright…. And if she needed anything??

But I bet every time you walk pass by your car, you make sure to notice the new scratch or dent and rush home to get a napkin to wipe the mud of your car…..

When was the last time you held your woman by the waist, looked her in your eyes and tell her how badly you want her…?

But I’m sure every time your dream machine pulls up next to you at the signal; you make it a point to yell out how badly you want that master piece.

When was the last time you took time out to spend a day with the woman of your dreams …?

But I’m sure it was just around the corner when you took time out to take your machine for a nice service spa…..

When was the last time you hopped by a grocery store to pick chocolates or stopped by a florist to get your girl a bunch of flowers… honestly as a woman… flowers are NO BIG deal… a woman of substance can get anyone to get her a bunch of flowers…. And trust me... if she wants it... she cant get anything under the sun… remember guys it’s not about the flowers that she craves…. It’s just about you taking an extra moment to go out of the way to do something for her that she longs for. A bunch of flowers could cost you 50 bucks, but the smile you can put on her face is going to be priceless… and you still think that if it’s not worth your time…. Then… no point reading further…

We all know that a woman is a lot more emotionally stronger than a man… but when she is in love, she doesn’t once hold herself from opening up and being at the peak of being vulnerable. She wants her man to love her for what she truly is. What a man takes to be vulnerability is actually the strength and trust the woman instils in him to show him her inner self… trust me it would take a hell and a lifetime for a man to be so brutally honest about his inner being…

While a woman may spend hours crying for you… she doesn’t do that because she has nothing better to do in life, she only does that with a hope that someday those tears are the reason for you to hold her in her arms and tell her , “everything will be ok.!”

She spends hours cooking for you, not because she loves to sweat it out in the kitchen or she has no social life of her own, she probably does that because she knows that’s something that would get you thinking about having a family together someday.

She pours out her heart in all the romantic quotes and poems for you, not because she’s trying to win the title of the Opera Queen, but only for you to know that, “Boy, this is exactly how I feel and I’m not afraid to admit it!!”

She’ll still love you for all the cold shoulder that you have given her, not because she doesn’t have other options… but because she knows that her heart is warm enough just to keep the relationship safe and secure.

If she loves you like the way she does, that’s not because she’s an emotional fool and can’t do without you. It’s only because she knows she can stand alone and have the world at her feet, but she wants to share that world with you.

…………………AND if you still haven’t seen it…… then the question you should be asking yourself here is that…. Have you ever really loved a Woman….???

You can push her away with all the self made anger, disrespect her for none of her mistake, pretend like your busy working, while you are playing with your cars, get her to get her off your back….. But that doesn’t stop a true woman from loving you….. Only difference will be… One moment she’s her….. And before you realize the next moment she’ll be gone…..

So guys… if you have found that true love…. But you are still busy ogling at the cars and the gadgets…. Then just make sure you are in the right relationship…

Not because the woman is not the right one for you… in that case no woman is the right one for you…….. But you will only know this…. IF YOU HAVE REALLY EVER LOVED A WOMAN…….